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George Walk's avatar

Wow! Great column. Thank you for sharing your thoughts on this. So much to unpack. I think I may need to write multiple comments to express my ideas on this.

On forgiveness, I think forgiveness is the gift we give ourselves. It allows us to free ourselves from hate, regret, and self pity. It is a shared cleansing of pain between people. Without it, anger and fear fester and dominate our thoughts and actions. I believe that forgiveness is the core teaching of Jesus and it is the most overlooked and misunderstood.

If you have watched the show "Ted Lasso" you know what this is about. The show is not about soccer but about love, kindness, and forgiveness leading and triumphing. My favorite scene is at the end of season 1. During the first season, Rebecca, the owner of the team, has been scheming to destroy the team and Ted. She has been emotionally mortally wounded by her ex-husband and in an act desperation self-immolation she confesses all to Ted. I will let the scene speak for itself. It is a scene that would not have played this way on any other show. It broke me. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Nhf5QSc0oZI

Merry Christmas and Happy Festivus!

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Oscar Gordon's avatar

Thank you for an excellent and thought-provoking column. Although I never articulated it before, I suppose I am a Catholic agnostic - I attend services and participate in the community, but am in perpetual doubt about Jesus' divinity. The thinking usually goes - was Jesus God's son in the divine sense, or in the sense that we are all God's children? And at the end of the day does it really matter? It doesn't change the worth of his teachings.

One other observation - I don't think you can viscerally understand the concept of unconditional forgiveness until you have children of your own. That's why I think the breakdown of the traditional family and the lessening of faith in America go hand in hand.

And I still wish Midnight Mass weren't at 10 p.m.

Merry Christmas.

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